Dinner
Present:
John and Pam McBride
Francis and Anne McGowan
Dave and Susan Schwerian
Skip Covert
Steve Fickel
Chuck Goggin
Rus Jewett
John Ripley
A.J. DosSantos
Jesse Torres
And several others that I haven’t
identified
(please notify me if your name or
the name of another attendee is not included)



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Recorded portion of
after dinner statement: “…first time spent and flavored now by occasional tears. I’m still
damn glad I went. Think about that because there were people there that
didn’t go, didn’t go by choice, and we did and I’m still damn glad I went. I
can’t believe it. When you look at a group like this and think somehow,
although I had 0 to nothing to do with it, nothing but chance, I found myself
amongst a group of men like this, and people that literally by chance just
happened to be with me. This bit of prose says it far better than I can and
it reflects my feelings precisely. It’s called “Brotherhood”. “I know now why men who have been to war yearn to reunite. Not to tell
stories or to look at old pictures (although I sure as hell looked at a
lot of pictures). Not to laugh or to weep. Comrades gather because they
long to be with the men who once acted at their best. (What a perfect
statement). Men who suffered and sacrificed, who were stripped of their
humanity (A perfect statement) I did not pick these men they were
delivered by fate and the military but I know them in a way that I know no
other men. I’ve never given anyone such trust. They were willing to guard
something more precious than my life. They would have carried my reputation
(that’s still true) all the memory of me. It was part of the bargain we all
made the reason we were so willing to die for one and other as long as I have
my memories I will think of this and think of them all every day. I’m sure
that when I leave this world my last thoughts will be of my family and my comrades-
such good men.” “Again author unknown, but, boy, he picked it right out of my mouth-
‘such good men’. Not to exclude the women that those men have associated with
these many years. But without being emotional or maudlin, which is becoming
increasingly difficult these days every time….” -
Col. John W. RIPLEY, USMC (Ret) 3
Mar 2007 |